Frustrated? Irritated? Blinded? Clouded?
Sometimes we find ourselves consumed with anger, sadness, rage, disappointment over a situation we just can’t change.
The grind your teeth, pull your hair out, worry all night kind of feeling.
The type of thing that no matter what you do, how much you throw at it, how much you try and help or how much try and wish it to be different.
I know the feeling, and I bet you do too.
This frustration can dim our light and cloud our judgement. Sometimes we need to take a step back and re evaluate our stance on things and put our emotions on hold in order to rationalise.
Prioritise what’s important and not allow ourselves to be consumed by something, someone or an aggravating situation.
It’s like getting your knickers in a twist and not being able to knick pick them bitches back into place.
Make sure you keep your goals and original intentions firmly at the forefront of your mind, when hit with a road block readdress those first plans, ideas and thoughts before letting the obstacles get the better of you.
Any frustrating road block can be flattened. However, your efforts might be better off finding a detour around it, rather than crushing it completely.
This keeps the metaphorical road safe, without any destruction, and when done right may even result in the road block being removed, and the frustration along with it.
Explore your options and keep your cool. Maintain your composure and and don’t allow hard times to bring you down or fog your mind, don’t let them trigger your rage or question your integrity.
Don’t let your knickers get in a twist by trying to dodge, dive or destroy something when you can keep them big nude undies in place comfortably, and out of your butt by walking straight ahead with your head held high.
We are all faced with challenges at some point in our lives, and most of them testing our limits and patience. It’s how we deal with these situations that help us grow, learn and shape us.
And in some cases it’s easier, best, and beneficial to work with the problem rather than against it.
Patience, perseverance, problem solving.
Stay cool peeps ✌🏻👌🏼